"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle. – Plato
The art of kindness is an underrated art. Ask anyone around you whether or not they think kindness is important, and more often than not, about ninety percent of them would tell you that it is important.
Why is kindness important?
A question we find an easy answer to. Yet, it only takes a glance at society to see that we still have a long way to go when it comes to mastering kindness. This, generally, stems from the fact that despite professing it on the surface, some of us don’t really understand .
Others who do, don’t really understand the complete facets of kindness.
In this article, we explore 11 crucial reasons why is kindness important, shedding even more light on why to progress as a society, we must place a higher emphasis on kindness and begin to show it more.
Kindness in Two Forms
Before we move on thoroughly into highlighting the importance of kindness, it is first crucial that we understand what the term means in the first place.
To do this, we have to look at the whole idea of kindness from two angles – as something we do unto others and as something we give to ourselves.
Kindness to Others
Showing kindness to others is perhaps the most popular phrase humans throw about without really committing to it. Many don’t even really know what it means in the first place.
To many, showing kindness implies going out of their ways to do something grand and unbelievable for others. Some even believe that they can’t be kind to others until the act of kindness makes them suffer in one way or another.
Generally, though, this isn’t usually the case.
We don’t have to hurt ourselves to be kind to others. Simple acts of kindness such as giving a compliment and offering someone your seat all go a long way in making a difference in someone else’s life.
The more mature you are, the more helpful and kind you are. The reason is that your maturity level is proportional to your kindness.
Kindness to Oneself
The most obscure of the two forms of kindness, “kindness to oneself” is usually overlooked by many because they feel as though it should be a given.
While this is right and kindness to oneself should always be a constant feature in our lives, it usually isn’t. In fact, it isn’t rare to find people who have mastered being kind to others who still haven’t realized that they have to be kind to themselves, too.
Not only is being kind to ourselves essential for our personal growth and the growth of our communities, but it is also one of the best ways to be kinder to others.
In short, if we don’t master the art of being kind to ourselves, it becomes a lot more challenging to be kind to other people.
Why is kindness important?
11 Reasons why being kind matters
As we grow up, we learn that being kind is a good thing. We are raised in a society where we are taught to be kind and to help others, but why? If we think about it for just a little while, the answer seems fairly obvious.
This list is not comprehensive but it contains 11 of the most powerful reasons that being kind matters in the world.
1. Tremendous emotional return for minimal effort
2. Kindness is Contagious
3. Kindness Builds Bridges
4. It Helps Lift Mental Blocks
5. It is Good Karma
6. Kindness Provides Clarity
7. It Can Brighten up Someone Else’s Day
8. Life is to Live and Love Fully
9. It is a form of Catharsis
10. Being Kind Actually Increases Life Span
11. Kindness is the Perfect Example to Set for Younger Generation
Conclusion
The great writer Henry James once described the three most important things in human life. The first, he said, was being kind. The second? Being kind. The third? Being kind, too.
Looking at the eleven points we’ve highlighted above, it is not hard at all to see why he said what he said. Kindness has always been, and will always remain, one of the most important facets of human lives and interaction.
Once we master kindness, we elevate ourselves, those around us, and our society as well. No other human action offers such a comprehensive benefit with absolutely no side effects.
This is why being kind matters.
Sharing is caring!"
Both images and words above are only a snippet from the original article which you can read in full here
Have you been kind today? Have you helped someone today?
Do please share your thoughts in the comments below.
Why is kindness important?
A question we find an easy answer to. Yet, it only takes a glance at society to see that we still have a long way to go when it comes to mastering kindness. This, generally, stems from the fact that despite professing it on the surface, some of us don’t really understand .
Others who do, don’t really understand the complete facets of kindness.
In this article, we explore 11 crucial reasons why is kindness important, shedding even more light on why to progress as a society, we must place a higher emphasis on kindness and begin to show it more.
Kindness in Two Forms
Before we move on thoroughly into highlighting the importance of kindness, it is first crucial that we understand what the term means in the first place.
To do this, we have to look at the whole idea of kindness from two angles – as something we do unto others and as something we give to ourselves.
Kindness to Others
Showing kindness to others is perhaps the most popular phrase humans throw about without really committing to it. Many don’t even really know what it means in the first place.
To many, showing kindness implies going out of their ways to do something grand and unbelievable for others. Some even believe that they can’t be kind to others until the act of kindness makes them suffer in one way or another.
Generally, though, this isn’t usually the case.
We don’t have to hurt ourselves to be kind to others. Simple acts of kindness such as giving a compliment and offering someone your seat all go a long way in making a difference in someone else’s life.
The more mature you are, the more helpful and kind you are. The reason is that your maturity level is proportional to your kindness.
Kindness to Oneself
The most obscure of the two forms of kindness, “kindness to oneself” is usually overlooked by many because they feel as though it should be a given.
While this is right and kindness to oneself should always be a constant feature in our lives, it usually isn’t. In fact, it isn’t rare to find people who have mastered being kind to others who still haven’t realized that they have to be kind to themselves, too.
Not only is being kind to ourselves essential for our personal growth and the growth of our communities, but it is also one of the best ways to be kinder to others.
In short, if we don’t master the art of being kind to ourselves, it becomes a lot more challenging to be kind to other people.
Why is kindness important?
11 Reasons why being kind matters
As we grow up, we learn that being kind is a good thing. We are raised in a society where we are taught to be kind and to help others, but why? If we think about it for just a little while, the answer seems fairly obvious.
This list is not comprehensive but it contains 11 of the most powerful reasons that being kind matters in the world.
1. Tremendous emotional return for minimal effort
2. Kindness is Contagious
3. Kindness Builds Bridges
4. It Helps Lift Mental Blocks
5. It is Good Karma
6. Kindness Provides Clarity
7. It Can Brighten up Someone Else’s Day
8. Life is to Live and Love Fully
9. It is a form of Catharsis
10. Being Kind Actually Increases Life Span
11. Kindness is the Perfect Example to Set for Younger Generation
Conclusion
The great writer Henry James once described the three most important things in human life. The first, he said, was being kind. The second? Being kind. The third? Being kind, too.
Looking at the eleven points we’ve highlighted above, it is not hard at all to see why he said what he said. Kindness has always been, and will always remain, one of the most important facets of human lives and interaction.
Once we master kindness, we elevate ourselves, those around us, and our society as well. No other human action offers such a comprehensive benefit with absolutely no side effects.
This is why being kind matters.
Sharing is caring!"
Both images and words above are only a snippet from the original article which you can read in full here
Have you been kind today? Have you helped someone today?
Do please share your thoughts in the comments below.
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39 comments:
I like to believe that kindness does bring good karma- Christine cmlk79.blogspot.com
What a good post Jan.
Kindness is important and presently the world could do with more kindness.
Tina
...Jan, I enjoyed your first illustration. I remember my first job in a garden. On rainy spring days I would help ladies selection plants while they held your umbrellas and the water would drip down my neck. What fun.
Es bueno ser amable. Te mando un beso.
I agree with Henry James! Thanks Jan, for a uplifting post that I wholeheartedly agree with. 🌹
Dear Jan, this is a really beautiful post. The illustrations go perfectly with the theme.
Love this post, kindness is so important in this war torn world and re your comments, mine go to a section to be checked first in case of scammers, so apologies but I love your comments xx [being in Australia there is always that time zone delay ♥]
Lovely post about kindness, Jan. Good to read.
Such a good post
It doesn't cost anything to be kind :)
The world would be a much better place if there was more kindness around.
I always get sad when I am kind and people are surprised about it - as said in the article it is so easy.
And I received kindness just the other day - I struggled with my heavy luggage and a woman offered help. Thank you!
Kindness to Oneself is a problem, though...
To to open doors, give a smile and offer help.
Once a woman talked to me at the checkout and then... "oh! You are NOT my Granddaughter, I am sorry!!!" LOL, no worries! We had a good laugh and both left happy.
Yes, kindness is important, whether between people, animals, or nature. This post is interesting, thanks for posting!
good day, hugs Elke
It really is important Jan and being kind to yourself is really important too! :-D
Kindness is so important and takes many forms. That reminds me - I must make a 'phone call.
Pequenos gestos de gentileza, podem mudar o dia de alguém para melhor!
beijos, chica
Lovely post and a reminder that being kind to oneself, or self care isn't selfish.
Another wonderful post. Thanx.
God bless.
The more kindness the better! You never know when one small thing can make someone's day or help them through a difficult moment. And being kind to oneself can be difficult, but it's worth the effort. :-)
It is.
This IS a good article -- and I couldn't agree more.
Good words for today.
Karma wants us to be kind.
Jan, I so enjoyed reading this post on Kindness. It's made me stop and think a bit because I have always associated it with being kind to others, but not so much to myself.
Great post, Jam. Completely agree on the importance of kindness.
Oh for kinder world.
It's easier to be kind than not.
Kindness has ripples that get passed along. Doesn't take much to be kind, just a word or a smile can brighten someone's day.
I like when someone is kind to me, and I try to be nice to others. Always. If only more people were like that.
Thanks, JAN, for a great post and so needed in our busy world where folks are in desperate need of a smile or a kind word.💖
Kindness is lovely. Thankfully, I have a circle of friends who are kind and I imagine your inner circle is equally as kind. That's a good thing.
In the words of the Doctor “ Never be cruel, never be cowardly. Remember, hate is always foolish and love is always wise. Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind”
Llevo muchos años de voluntaria de Cruz roja y ser amable con la gente es primordial, es un gesto que todos agradecen.
Un abrazo.
Sweet image to go with this great post Jan. Kindness is good for the receiver but the benefits are also good for the giver. An important message you have given today :) all the best, Denise
A good post. xx
Really thoughtful ost!
GOOGLE TRANSLATE
J.P. Alexander
Es bueno ser amable. Te mando un beso
It's good to be kind. I'm sending you a kiss.
chica
Pequenos gestos de gentileza, podem mudar o dia de alguém para melhor!
beijos, chica
Small acts of kindness can change someone's day for the better!
Kisses, Chica
Laura. M
Llevo muchos años de voluntaria de Cruz roja y ser amable con la gente es primordial, es un gesto que todos agradecen.
Un abrazo.
I've been a Red Cross volunteer for many years, and being kind to people is essential; it's a gesture everyone appreciates.
Hugs.
Kindness is so important, I wish our leaders used a little bit of it in their lives.
I truly loved this post dear Jan because it’s my most favourite topic for lifetime 🥹
I feel very fortunate to born with habit of being kind to all around me and I believe this is true living by the grace of kind God🥹🙏♥️
Kindness can be hard for me
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